ཐི ❤︎ ཋྀ--- Byf --- I'm very open to plotting and interacting out of character (OOC) to help develop our muses. I expect basic RP etiquette, no god-modding, metagaming or unnecessary OOC drama. I’d prefer keeping OOC knowledge separate from IC, with the only exception that if we don’t get along OOC, I’d prefer avoiding interacting IC. I'm interaction-based, and if there have been weeks with little to no attempt to interact, your account will be soft-blocked. Feel free to follow back if you still want to interact and the soft block was a mistake.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- dni if ---you or your muse are below 21, are uncomfortable with NSFW topics or talking OOC for plotting purposes, write in FL, smut RP, gen RP, semi-au RP, etc. Use problematic or deceased face claims, or change the ethnicity or age of face claims significantly from the face claim's actual age.

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birth name 𓂃 tia yoon kr yoon yuri 윤유리
other name(s) 𓂃 tia
birth 𓂃 07 august '01 (23:46) New Malden, England
species 𓂃 human
ethnicity 𓂃 south korean
nationality 𓂃 british-korean
languages 𓂃 english, koreangender/pronouns 𓂃 「 she/her 」genderfluid ( ⤷ see plots page )
orientation 𓂃 pansexual
relationship status 𓂃 singleoccupation 𓂃 lead singer of punk band lipstick from an ashtray, experimental indie artist under the name tiacup, and does ASMR videos that she posts on tiktok and youtube shorts under the username ashtray asmr.
class 𓂃 middle class with her work giving her passive income. her spending habits are impulsive, but doesn't complain about the concequences.
hometown 𓂃 Brighton, England
education 𓂃 scraped through secondary school in brighton, and bailed on music production course in london halfway through.family 𓂃 yoon riseok father tattooist with a big vinyl hobby, quiet and distant. yoon yujin mother retired art teacher, blunt and practical.
current residence 𓂃 small, but inviting apartment in Hongdae, Seoul, with peeling paint, a mattress on the floor, and band flyers taped to the fridge.

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positive traits 𓂃 Loyal, courageous, honest, creative, independent, resourceful, witty, adventurous, passionate, resilient, empathetic
negative traits 𓂃 Impulsive, reckless, defensive, sarcastic, self-destructive, difficulty trusting others, hot-headed, confrontational, inconsistent, flaky, secretly insecureinterests creating and listening to asmr, watching movies and anime, playing games, vinyl collecting, subcultures and underground scenes, skateboarding, browsing online communities and forums.likes 𓂃 pc games, anime and manga, ASMR. dark humor and satire, alternative fashion.
dislikes 𓂃 crowded tourist spots, routine, strict rules, early mornings, slow internet, hot weather, plastic accessories.diagnose(s) 𓂃 undiagnosed, but has the possible diagnosis of adhd, abandonment issues and depression.

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visage 𓂃 heart shaped face, with slightly sharp cheekbones and expressive dark brown eyes. full, slightly pouty lips.
hair 𓂃 shoulder length straight hair, naturally black. dyes it sometimes with toners, but has never bleached her hair.
height 𓂃 163 cm (5'4")
notable features 𓂃 small beauty mark under her right eye, tiny scar on her left hand, freckles that are lightly dusted across the fridge of her nose and upper cheeks that become visible after spending time in the sun, and slightly pointed ears.modifications 𓂃 always wears rings. ear piercings on her lobes and a helix.
style 𓂃 a mixture of punk, grunge and indie street wear with subtle feminine touches; band tees, ripped jeans, leather jackets, oversized hoodies, combat boots, chokers, layered silver jewelry. usually dressed in dark colors.
scent 𓂃 Lightly musky with hints of vanilla and tobacco. Often wears TOM FORDTobacco Vanille EdP
ㅤㅤཐི❤︎ཋྀ 𓂃 Top notes are Tobacco Leaf and Spicy Notes; middle notes are Vanilla, Cacao, Tonka Bean and Tobacco Blossom; base notes are Dried Fruits and Woody Notes.speech 𓂃 sarcastic, sharp and witty. often speaks in short, clipped sentences and uses humor as a shield.
habits 𓂃 fidget with rings, hair strands or necklaces when thinking or nervous. late-night writer and thinker, often scribbles lyrics, asmr scripts or sketches until early morning. tend to bite her lower lip when stressed or deep in thought.
health 𓂃 sleep-deprived, but physically agile. struggles with insomia and a eating disorder.
face claim 𓂃 Kim 'winter' Minjeong of aespa

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ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - first punk band --- Growing up to be a passionate rebel, Tia formed a controversial political punk band with three of her friends from the musical production course in London. They held a few garage concert, and even landed three bigger venue concerts before the band had to split up, and Tia moved to South Korea not too long after.ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - moving to korea --- Tia had moved away to get rid of everything that was holding her back in England. Finding a cheap studio apartment in a run-down apartment building close to where her grandparents lived, she did most with what she could. She’d use her time to get to know her grandparents, visiting them every day until they were no longer here. In addition to taking care of her grandparents, she joined another punk band named 'lipstick from an ashtray' with one other woman, and two other men. She’s still part of this band today.ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - relationship with parents --- They always struggled to get close to Tia, but they love her. Some would consider them to be a little controlling – especially after she moved away, and they would become more distant — phone calls are short, sarcastic, and end with awkward but genuine “love you”s.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - WARNING! the following information goes in dept and has non-graphic mentions of abuse, harrassment, homophobia, marriage, cheating, suicide. please read with caution.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - relationship with mother --- HER MOTHER was controlling, but she loved her. after tia had revealed she had a relationship with the drummer of her first punk band back at home, her mother seemed supportive, however she was plotting against her behind her back. she would online harrass tia's girlfriend to the point it would cause strains in their relationship, and eventually, she threatened the girlfriend in person after the band had ended up at the hospital due to a car accident. she was told to leave tia alone, or she'd face the concequences. it didnt take long before the couple broke up, and as a concequence also the band.ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - one day marriage --- Grieving the loss of her first love, TIA would go clubbing and karaoke every night, furthermore, she had dropped out of music production, claiming it was killing her creatvitiy, although she just couldnt stand being told what to do. she would often link up with a boy around the same age as her, and in mids of a drunken confession, she asked him to marry her which they went thru with, however, after saying the words 'i do', tia ran away to spend one last week with her ex girlfriend and was told what her mother did. filing for annulment, she'd move to another country just a few days after.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - the plots listed are all rough guidelines and can be changed around during plotting. plots are not limited to the plots on the page, so if you think of another plot, feel free to suggest it. I'm also very interested in filling other muse's plots, so if you feel like my muse could fit somewhere your muse has development need, let me know!

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ཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- one day marriage --- [CLOSED : 1/1] — male , 1998-2002   :    someone that tia was married to for around one day to a week, no feelings involved just impuslivity, and marriage was later annulled. (must have happened in england)ཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- title --- [OPEN : 0/1] — gender , 0000   :    information about plotཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- title --- [OPEN : 0/1] — gender , 0000   :    information about plotཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- title --- [OPEN : 0/1] — gender , 0000   :    information about plotཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- title --- [OPEN : 0/1] — gender , 0000   :    information about plot

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - below are situations and future plots that i want tia to explore to get to know herself better and that I want to write so you all can see what and where i want tia to go as a character.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ--- plots and developments i want to explore with tia : --- ཐི❤︎ཋྀ♡ ⏤ I want tia to explore her gender more, as she feels uncomfortable being labeled female or male, and even non-binary. sexuality is also something she's uncomfortable talking about, so I want her to explore that more as well and grow comfortable with herself.♡ ⏤ I want tia to explore her musical expression more. because she has been doing punk since she was 18, she has grown a lot emotionally and mentally and want to explore different genres to express herself.

----------- rules & disclaimer

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - One --- I mirror writing, and I'm down to write literate threads either on Discord in a 1x1 server, or in a separate group chat in Twitter DMs. If you're interested, I'm open to sporadic threads and/or plotted. If you're curious, don't hesitate to approach! I'm open to adjusting my muse's history for plots if necessary. This muse is single-ship, but I'm not interested in writing a committed relationship at the moment for this muse. I need a heads-up about triggering, SPN, or NSFW content in advance (either a trigger warning or a plotting DM). Activity may fluctuate, but I’ll reply when I can.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - Two --- ic drama is fine with the exception of heavy accusations — so long as it doesn't get carried over to ooc feelings. If you feel like my muse is mistreating yours, I would appreciate you approaching me ooc about it. However, I support muses facing the consequences of their actions, so you're free to have your muse react how you see fit, and I will do the same. I'm not okay with OOC drama, and unnecessary execution of this will get you a soft/hard block.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - Three --- Triggering topics will appear on this account, usually in headcanon, or self-para writing. This is included, but not limited to: mentions of mental illnesses like depression and anxiety, gender dysphoria and body dysphoria, injury, self-harm, pregnancy and death. Sexual and other nsfw or triggering content will also be seen on my muse's private account. if this makes you uncomfortable, either don't follow or softblock/block the account.

ཐི❤︎ཋྀ - Four --- Other things I think are worth mentioning: Retweets are off for personal reasons. I’m twin-friendly. My muse might block muses as a joke or response to a comment, I will unblock after a few minutes or hours. I’m not interested in RPing with anyone who expresses misogyny, racism, homophobia, or transphobia, etc., both OOC and IC.